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Memorial Service for Donald William Jennison
Saturday, April 30, 2005
Isaiah 25: 6-9
Psalm 121
Micah 6:6-8
John 14: 1-3, 27
"Do justice; love kindness; and walk
humbly with your God."
The prophetic oracles of Micah, first
delivered over 2500 years ago, offer to us a moving summation of
what God expects of us, in this life. So often, with all of our
modern pondering about life’s meaning, its priorities, and its
proper values, we forget the simplicity and the depth of these three
simple yet profound commands contained in Micah’s ancient words. Do
justice. Love kindness. And walk humbly with God.
We have gathered together, this
afternoon, to remember and to honour the life of Don Jennison. As I
read these ancient words from the prophet Micah, I must admit that
there are few people that I have ever met whose lives give more
evidence of the type of life commended by that ancient prophet. As I
came to know him over the last few years, I can honestly say that I
believe that Don Jennison was a man who sought to do justice, to
love kindness, and to walk humbly with God.
The life of Donald William Jennison
began on May 19, 1927, here in Toronto. He was the only child born
to May and Frank Jennison, who lived in this very neighbourhood for
a good portion of Don's earliest years.
Don attended Swansea School, and then
went on to Humberside Collegiate. He graduated from Victoria College
with a Bachelor of Arts degree, and was then accepted to Teacher's
College.
For a number of summers as a young
man, Don worked up north at a camp called Camp Temagami. His work in
that setting was closely related to two of the interests that would
last with him throughout his life--namely, working with children,
and enjoying the beauty and grandeur of the natural world.
Some of Don's most beloved memories
from his own childhood and youth--and some of the greatest
friendships that he ever had--were connected with his involvement in
the Scouting movement. It was also during his time as a leader in
the Scouting movement that Don fell in love with Joyce Allen. Don
and Joyce were married in this very sanctuary on July 3, 1954, and
celebrated their fiftieth wedding anniversary just last year.
After their wedding, Don and Joyce
lived, for a period of time, in an apartment on Kingsway Avenue,
before buying their first home in Etobicoke. Their lives were richly
blessed with the birth of their children--Paul, Donna and Eric; and
later, with the birth of their grandchildren Nicholaus, Tina,
Jessica, Michael, Julia and Isabel.
Many of the family's most cherished
memories come from their times spent together at the cottage.
Whether it was swimming in the lake, or tramping through the woods,
or sitting around a campfire singing silly songs while Don sang and
strummed on his guitar, that time spent at the cottage over the
years offered many occasions for joyful memories that will certainly
outlast this present sadness. Don and his family enjoyed canoeing,
sailing, watching the birds and investigating the rocks, the
forests, the flowers, and the beauties of the natural world during
those summer days together.
After completing Teacher’s College,
Don taught in elementary and then junior high schools for a number
of years. Don then began a long and dedicated career in school
administration, first serving as a vice-principal and then as a
principal in a number of different schools in the Peel School Board,
including at Applewood, Munden Park and Eastbourne schools.
Don's style as a principal was one in
which the needs and concerns of the children were paramount. Upon
his retirement as a principal, Don received a letter from a
colleague and a friend which included the following words--words
which provide a fitting testament to the type of teacher and
principal that Don had been. That colleague wrote, to Don, that "I
admired your interest in kids and your ability to place their needs
above the bureaucratic needs of the system." It was that same desire
to elevate the needs of people above faceless and sometimes
demoralizing systems of power that would later lead Don to become
actively engaged in a host of community-based groups and
initiatives. A few years ago, for example, Don was quoted in the
Toronto Star’s coverage of a community meeting which had been
convened to explore ways to address crime in society. In spite of
the fact that crime rates were falling, the government of the time
was seeking to ‘get tough’ on crime, even as they were
simultaneously proposing significant cuts to welfare and education
funding. Don saw—and spoke—to the absurdity of the situation. “When
people aren't valued in society," he was quoted as saying, "that's
how we get crime." Whether it was issues related to the children in
his schools, or his later involvement in his community, Don was a
man who was more interested in addressing the causes of people’s
problems rather than simply sitting in harsh judgement on those who
had fallen into times of difficulty.
Apart from his work in schools, Don
and Joyce had a number of good friendships with other couples and
individuals over the years. One of the closest sets of friends was a
group of men with whom Don would, on occasion, participate in
especially lofty and noble pursuits—such as their regular games of
poker. That group of about eight men would usually gather at one of
the houses and spend the evening together, playing cards and likely
solving the world’s problems.
On one such occasion, however, the
friends decided that they were going to take a boat out onto Lake
Ontario for their poker game. One of the members of that group owned
a boat which was moored at the marina on the Humber River. That boat
was named after the seventh planet in our solar system, the planet
Uranus. Out of a sense of the proper decorum needed to mark that
lofty expedition, one of the members of that august company of
sailors took it upon himself to re-name the boat by stencilling the
word UP in front of the boat's planetary name.
Don had a deep love of music and
particularly operas and classical music. Over the last few days,
Don’s family members have often commented on how much Don was
touched and moved by his love of music.
As well as time spent with family and
friends, Don had a number of more individual pursuits. . He loved
birding, flying model airplanes, listening to music, running,
working in his workshop, and walking in nature. As well, and
particularly over the last few years, Don dedicated a significant
portion of his time and his energy to an active participation in the
life of this neighbourhood and city.
Whether it was the simple act of
distributing flyers and pamphlets about issues of concern to local
residents, or attending community meetings to voice his perspectives
on approaches to crime, or protesting environmentally destructive
municipal development, or leading initiatives to address what he
considered to be unwise directions on a host of issues affecting the
residents of this city, Don could be counted upon to be informed,
and to be involved. As John Leeson, who is one of Don’s friends from
world19--a community citizens’ group that Don was a part
of--beautifully wrote in a tribute to Don, Don was,
someone who had always committed
his time, energy, and his heart to causes of principle, to
fights for the ordinary citizen, and against arbitrary and
senseless decisions wherever they originated….He believed
fiercely in social justice, in Canadian nationalism, in the
importance of public education and public healthcare, and in
economic and monetary reform. As a retired educator, he goaded
the Ontario Teachers' Pension Fund to invest only in socially
responsible investments. He took the same principles to
neighbourhood issues, whether supporting the viability of small
businesses on Bloor, or helping to get rid of a gigantic
billboard on the edge of High Park. Don believed in a community
that existed for, and responded to, its residents.
At one point or another, Don was
“a part of…The Council of Canadians, the Toronto Health
Coalition, COMER (Council on Monetary and Economic Reform), The
Alliance of Seniors to Protect Canada's Social Programs, the
Swansea Historical Society, Swansea Area Ratepayers Association,
and as far as I know, he has at times joined most political
parties depending on which could best serve the cause at the
time.
Towards the end of the tribute to
Don, John wrote,
Without Don…some local
politicians will now be receiving fewer phone calls, letters and
emails -- unless we all help to make up for their loss. It's up
to those of us who knew him, whenever we come across something
outrageous and think to ourselves, "Don wouldn't put up with
that!", to take on a bit of Don's work.
At the conclusion of the tribute,
John wrote,
Finally
-- but most importantly -- we want to express our sincere
condolences and sympathy to Joyce and all of Don's family. We
share your loss, but also share a small part of your joy in
Don's life.
In the last few years, Don became a
very regular and active part of this congregation—and it was through
that contact that he and Joyce became friends to myself, to my wife
Karen, and in particular to our now two-year old daughter Kate. Don
and Joyce were two of the first names that Kate learned how to
pronounce, and shortly thereafter Don and Joyce would be regularly
mentioned in Kate’s prayers before bedtime.
But it was not only Kate who enjoyed
that friendship. I count it a great honour to have been able to call
Don Jennison a friend. Each weekday morning, the doors of this
sanctuary are opened, and I spend a period of time in silent prayer
and reflection as I begin the day. On many occasions, Don would drop
in to the church, and we would sit and talk. He would often have a
clipping, or details about some new organization, or a book to share
with me, many of which had to do with some new initiative about the
pursuit of justice, fairness, and decency in our society and our
world. We would talk about many things.
It was in those conversations that I
came to realize the depth and integrity in which Don sought to live
his life and to practice his faith. Even though he was a weekly
worshipper, a participant in Bible study groups, the chairperson of
the mission and outreach group, and a participant, and sometimes the
instigator of a variety of initiatives ranging all the way from
petitions related to the Year 2000 Jubilee debt relief campaign, to
the collection of socks and underwear for the homeless, to the
purchasing of Fair Trade coffee for coffee hour, to the rolling of
pennies to benefit AIDS patients in Africa—Don never formally became
a member of the congregation. A part of his reluctance was rooted in
his honest struggle with the great mysteries of faith—the
resurrection, the problem of suffering, the injustices and
inequalities in a world of such wonder and of beauty. I deeply
enjoyed our conversations and our friendship, and I deeply honoured
the honesty and integrity with which Don sought to live. He was a
man who was dedicated to the teachings of Christ, but who found it
difficult to accept the mysteries of faith without an honest
intellectual and spiritual struggle. I find consolation in the faith
that, even now, for Don, the mysteries have given way to a new and,
for us, incomprehensible understanding. “For now we see in a mirror
dimly, but then we will see face to face.”
As we all know, the past months have
been incredibly difficult ones for Don, for Joyce and for their
family. The seemingly endless set of operations, with moments of
progress so often followed by periods of significant setbacks, were
frustrating for Don, for his friends and for his family members. The
pain that both Don and his family experienced, since his first heart
operation back in the end of October, was eloquently described by
his granddaughter Julia, who wrote a poem for school about Don’s
time of suffering. In that poem, entitled “Heart Broken”, Julia
articulated the pain that she was experiencing, and that each one of
us, as his friends, felt for Don. Julia wrote,
As I walk away from
my grandpas house, a
warm tear rolls down
my cold cheek, my heart
aching like a headache that
no pill can stop, as I
sit in the car I wonder
what is going to happen?
I feel the pain that he is
going to feel, I call to find
out how he is, while his
frail sleeping body recovers.
In spite of the pain that they were
all feeling for Don, it is a tribute to his family to see the way
that they walked, together, through this difficult time. Visits from
his children and his grandchildren—sometimes on a daily basis—buoyed
up Don’s spirits, even as he himself was undergoing such a difficult
series of operations, procedures and treatments.
In particular, it is only right that
we honour the way that Joyce’s joyful and loving spirit seemed to
shine in a particularly wonderful way as she faithfully visited Don
on a daily basis. So often, when I would go down to visit Don at St.
Michael's, Joyce would introduce me, in the waiting room outside of
the Intensive Care Unit, to some other caregiver who was also going
through a time of struggle—and so often, it became quite apparent
that Joyce herself was offering comfort, consolation and friendship
to those around her, even as she, herself, was going through such a
difficult time.
Just before 3:00 last Tuesday
morning—in what seemed to be the darkest part of the night—Joyce and
I made the difficult trip to St. Joseph's Health Center in order to
be with Don during his final moments in this life. As we talked to
him, and prayed for him, and held his hands as he came to the end of
his days, I found myself both humbled and honoured to be with this
good and decent man at the end of his time upon this earth.
After Don’s life had come to an end,
Joyce and I drove back from St. Joseph’s, and I dropped her off at
about 4:15 a.m. As I did so, I had an unusual but wonderful moment
of grace. Even though it was still quite dark, Joyce and I heard a
bird start to sing as we pulled up to the Jennison home. Not being
the birder that Don was, I have no idea what kind of bird was
singing. But after I dropped Joyce off, and drove up Ellis Avenue to
the manse, an entire chorus of birds joined in the song of that one
single bird. I parked the car, and stood in our driveway and
listened as the bird’s songs rang out across the neighbourhood.
I am not often out at 4:00 in the
morning, so I have no idea whether the birds always start singing at
that moment in the day. But even if it was just a random
coincidence, it was, for me, a moment of sheer and awe-inspiring
grace. After all, to stand alone in the dark, after watching a good
man pass away—a man who loved birds and who loved music--and then to
hear the birds begin to sing about the dawn of a new day was an
experience almost too deep for words.
As I stood there in the dark,
listening to the birds, I could not help but rest in the knowledge
that, for Don, a new day had begun. The darkness was past. The
suffering, the frustration and the pain of the last few months has
now given way to a new reality, a new existence, a new life in the
presence of God. The peace and the comfort that so many of us prayed
for, for him, has come—perhaps not in the way that we would have
chosen or preferred, but it has come to him nonetheless. His
suffering is over; and we rest in the faith that, as the writer of
the Letter to the Romans so beautifully wrote, “the sufferings of
this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be
revealed to us.”
Even as Christ’s suffering on the
cross gave way to the joy of the empty tomb, so too Don’s time of
suffering has now given way to a new life, free from the confines of
mortality and from the inevitable decline of age. Because of what
Christ accomplished on the cross, each one of us can take comfort
and find strength in knowing that the power of sin, suffering,
injustice and death has been broken—once and for all—and that
Christ’s invitation to set aside our fear and instead to find a deep
and lasting peace in him—a peace that nothing else in this world can
give to us—is an invitation that is meant for each one of us. The
good news of God in Jesus Christ is that death has been conquered;
and that the love of God has, and will, prevail over the seemingly
ultimate power of our last and greatest enemy, that being death
itself.
And it is for that reason that we,
even in this time of sadness, find opportunity to celebrate.
After all, not only has the power of
death been broken but in so many ways, Don lived this life as God
required.
He was a man who sought to do
justice—whether it was on behalf of his fellow citizens and
neighbours, or whether it was in his active and involved engagement
with some of the massive global issues that cry out for justice and
for fairness. He did justice.
He was a man who loved kindness—and
sought to offer that kindness to the children in his schools, to his
neighbours on the street, to his grandchildren, to the poor and the
vulnerable in our society. He loved kindness.
And he was a man who, especially
toward the end of his life, walked humbly with God. Don’s humility
before God did not always allow him to pretend that he comprehended
the deepest mysteries of faith, but it was a humility which
nonetheless inspired him to live in a way that would be in
accordance with Christ’s overarching command to love God and to love
one’s neighbour as oneself. His awe at the beauty and the wonder of
creation, his anger at injustice, his willingness to explore new
ideas and to embrace unfamiliar ways, even into his elderly
years—all of these attributes made him a tremendous inspiration.
Don was not a perfect man; none of us
are. If we were, there would be no need for the grace of God. But
even as we remember his life this day, and as we seek, in his life,
some measure of inspiration for our own lives, perhaps it is simply
in remembering these three simple prophetic commands that seemed so
evident in the life of Don Jennison. What is required of us, in the
eyes of God? To do justice; to love kindness, and to walk humbly
with God as we make our way, through this beautiful but sometimes
deeply broken world, to the time when we, too, will come to the end
of our days, and will be safely ushered, by Christ himself, into the
light of God’s eternal love.
Our faith assures us that, even in
this time of sadness and death, we are not to lose hope. Our faith
invites us to believe, and to live in the joy of knowing that what
Christ accomplished for us, and for all of creation, is truly good
news for each one of us. The power of death has been broken. The
grave will not have the final claim upon us. A new and eternal life
awaits us, safe in the presence of the God who loves us more than
any of us can begin to imagine.
It is in that faith, in that hope,
and in the knowledge of that love that we are called to live out our
days upon this earth. It is in that faith, hope and love that we
give thanks, to God, for the beautiful gift who was our friend Don.
And it is in that faith, hope and
love that we live in the sure and certain hope of the resurrection
to eternal life, and even now look forward, with expectant hearts,
to the day of resurrection, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Friends, the mortal life of Donald
William Jennison has come to an end.
But Don’s eternal life has only just
begun.
Thanks be to God. Amen. |
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